Dog's "Intense Separation Anxiety" Is Mostly on the Owner's Side! | It's Me or The Dog

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It's Me or the Dog

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Dog training expert Victoria Stilwell meets an owner and her anxious dog suffering from separation anxiety... or is she? Victoria suspects most of the issue may be on the owner's side of the equation!
It's Me or the Dog Season 1 Episode 17
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It's Me or the Dog is a TV show where you can watch some fantastic dogs and get some tips on training your furry friend! Why do dogs hump? Why do dogs bite? Why do dogs bark? All these questions and more will be answered with the help of dog training expert Victoria Stilwell!
Learn puppy training and dog training techniques that can help turn your life around and get your canine companion under control with Full episodes from the show!

Lil Cocoa
Lil Cocoa 23 uur geleden
Why does she remind of Gina Carano..... just me?
Kaycee Chesnut
Kaycee Chesnut 6 dagen geleden
When I first got my dog from the shelter I was worried because the worker said he had some anxiety so we should be crate training him. Lo and behold, I get home from work one day and he's broken out of his crate. But was just laying on the couch the whole time. He just hated being in the crate, but being home alone was fine. Sometimes destructive behavior doesn't have to do with anxiety but something else. People are just so quick to point fingers at that one thing.
Kim Lechman
Kim Lechman 9 dagen geleden
I understand how hard it is to be separated from your pet, but both owner and pet need to understand how to be independent and not be so co-dependent on one another so much
bezbotek 22 dagen geleden
03:55 She really treats dog like a human :-D
Purple the Poet
Purple the Poet 22 dagen geleden
I lost it when she casually greeted her dog with "hello" like it's a human who understands
datsavagepokewolf 28 dagen geleden
My dog Andre has separation anxiety where he barks,cries and even howls when one or both of us are away. We've had him for 2 and a half years and while he's made some progress he's still VERY insecure.
sso gaming
sso gaming Maand geleden
5 years face.angry face I'm like sheees lyyyinggg
MsJaime1977 Maand geleden
This woman has attachment issues! She’s a fruitloop
Evniki Alezandria
Evniki Alezandria Maand geleden times, Pampi wasn't even motivated to take the treat...
Natalie Dantas
Natalie Dantas Maand geleden
the worst part is that some dog owners kind of want their dogs to have separation anxiety because, that way, they feel like the dog cares. however, anxiety is awful, whether it's a human or a dog!
Alexis Murray
Alexis Murray Maand geleden
Did anyone else find it weird that she says “good dog” instead of “good girl” or “good boy”?
Sammie _
Sammie _ Maand geleden
Yes she’s a bit extreme with her love for her dog but she’s honestly trying to learn to be independent and she’s listening to what Victoria has to say, I haven’t finished the video but she’s at least trying. That’s better than 90% of the people Victoria sees
Daniel Salvador
Daniel Salvador Maand geleden
I was kind of her with my dog because I was afraid he will go potty inside the house or destroy something, but nope. My dog just lay down on the couch and sleep.
Adriana Maand geleden
How do I get Victoria to help me with my puppy?😅
Hannah Ellis
Hannah Ellis Maand geleden
That poor lady. She really does love that dog tho u cant be too mad at that. But lmao that dog was so happy to be alone 😂😂😫
Hannah Ellis
Hannah Ellis Maand geleden
Mrsqtfactory Maand geleden
Pampi seems like a very low-energy dog that doesn't know how to play
Rose_of_Darkn3ss Maand geleden
you litterally should name the channel "Its me not the dog" ....
Lisa Mac
Lisa Mac Maand geleden
Five years with this fool...poor dog WE are like single women hanging out.............LOL Obvious here who is the problem but then its always the human
Amberly the HarpyQueen
Amberly the HarpyQueen Maand geleden
It's almost always the owners with serious issues.
Azula Maand geleden
Bo Betsy
Bo Betsy Maand geleden
👩‍🦳: "Leaves" 🐶: Lies down..goes sleep 😴💤 👩‍🦳: 👁️ 👄 👁️
KawaiiFruit10 atz
KawaiiFruit10 atz Maand geleden
The fact that they are not wearing a mask at the coffee shop or at the salon or at their house 😳
Jackie Hilgers
Jackie Hilgers Maand geleden
This is years old
Jewel Swenson
Jewel Swenson Maand geleden
Victoria is the best dog trainer in the world 😍❤️❤️
XxxConfusedIdiotxxX :P
XxxConfusedIdiotxxX :P Maand geleden
Okay I got to give the owner props, it is so very rare on this show for the owner to admit they are actually the problem when it comes to the dogs behavior. Holy crap
Innocent Shy
Innocent Shy Maand geleden
Can I just say , that dogs been with her for 5 years and she can't even give the baby a good girl ? All she gets is a good dog . Idk it seems a lil demeaning
Kolbie Yourtee
Kolbie Yourtee Maand geleden
I have to get rid of my dog but I don't think anyone will take her at the shelter so she may get put down but I hope not😭😭
Green Facere
Green Facere Maand geleden
I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this, that’s so sad 😭🥺
MapleBear Maand geleden
Oh my god she finally used the phrase that we always use in the comment section! “It’s you not the dog”
•[]Alex the bun[]•
•[]Alex the bun[]• Maand geleden
Me: what if it was is it me or the bunny??? Because she did that with the pig
Yagna's Recipees
Yagna's Recipees Maand geleden
Joshua Ortiz
Joshua Ortiz Maand geleden
oooohhh she watched the comments. The video said "Its *you*,not the dog!"
Michelle Bergeron
Michelle Bergeron Maand geleden
That sunset!🌅🌆🔥
Brie Bella
Brie Bella Maand geleden
FINALLY they actually say it’s YOU NOT THE DOG 🐶
M0D LIFE Maand geleden
Hello can you help me my dogs keep fighting with eachother when me and my family are around is not under control
Carla Emmons
Carla Emmons Maand geleden
I had a problem yesterday I saw two dogs well more than 2 Dogs Way more and small kennel with a sign for sale it was like so sad me and my mom we're on the road they are outside in the small kennels and there are like five for jammed in them with a sign for sale
Gloria V
Gloria V Maand geleden
3:56 dying 😂😂😂
Miss Samhain
Miss Samhain Maand geleden
How is this even ok? This dog isn’t a service dog.. it should be at home. Period. She’s the one with the issues here not the dog
TheLaly37 Maand geleden
Finally the right title
Caitlin Davis
Caitlin Davis Maand geleden
Dog should not be given the run of the house like that. That’s the reason she’s not taking her owner seriously. Because he’s not given any structure or boundaries. Crate time should be a priority with dogs and puppies.
ღSwnsasyღ _
ღSwnsasyღ _ Maand geleden
That dog was like, FREEDOM AT LAST! SHE'S GONE! 🤣🤣
Minecrack Maand geleden
The dog dosent have separation anxiety the human does
Carly Yonkovit
Carly Yonkovit Maand geleden
That dog didn’t give a crap 💩
Pople BackyardFarm
Pople BackyardFarm Maand geleden
I have had a dog who would hate when I left
Fortnightlov 15
Fortnightlov 15 Maand geleden
Pepper has separation anxiety too so this helped thanks I’ll show my brother this video .. you always help me
Sunshine M.
Sunshine M. Maand geleden
Love that they've been reading the comments. To have "It's you not the dog" as the thumbnail 🤣
Pxchy !!!!!!! Boba lover
Pxchy !!!!!!! Boba lover Maand geleden
AkiraPlays Agaming
AkiraPlays Agaming Maand geleden
Aleshanation Maand geleden
So basically she's bringing her dog into public spaces when she shouldn't.
Humanimal Maand geleden
If anyone is going to tell you you're the problem... you want it to be Victoria
Humanimal Maand geleden
Woah I know whonhas the Sep.'s not the little doggie
Gabriel 2018
Gabriel 2018 Maand geleden
4:19 I like that "good dog"!! Finally someone!! It is not a girl.
Gabriel 2018
Gabriel 2018 Maand geleden
3:58 Right, more decisive! Do you have a mind?...
Gabriel 2018
Gabriel 2018 Maand geleden
1:35 I love the fact that Victoria is listening so patiently when inside her mind she must be thinking "What? what?... Noooo that is wrong"/"That is not why they react like that" 🤣
Cl Be
Cl Be Maand geleden
I have a new dog and she Bites and my other dogs don’t like her also my dog are all girls
Autumn Edwards
Autumn Edwards Maand geleden
I really love your vids and I try training my dogs with a few of your tricks but my grandma won’t help my dogs are really spoiled thanks to my grandma and I really need your help but I don’t think you would come to Florida to help me but if you see this really need your help it’s a disaster right now and I need big help
Gisela Gaza
Gisela Gaza Maand geleden
I love your channel about train
Mary Anna Palma Acevedo
Mary Anna Palma Acevedo Maand geleden
The problem with the dog is that he is fed up with being with his owner, also why are there no dog toys anywhere? 🤦🏻‍♀️
Alexa Mojica
Alexa Mojica Maand geleden
xtardy1 Maand geleden
I can’t be the only one to love this show so mush am I?
PeterFusion Maand geleden
If that dog is a pet, then why is it going into public areas?????
LET Mino
LET Mino Maand geleden
I have a dog with SA and she would start that way, too. However, she goes into full-on barking and panic attack with time. This half an hour thing is not true for many dogs. Luna would take the treat and be distracted when I leave and would be immediately in a full panic once she finished. Luna barks and doesn't destroy when in panic. Tbh, the dog in the video DOES show some signs of SA, the barking, in the end, is a BIG red flag. It has a weird ending, too.
Petty Betty Jay
Petty Betty Jay Maand geleden
Pampi: Shes gone? 10mins later Pampi: thank God that woman is gone, I can finally rest.
Megan The Baker
Megan The Baker Maand geleden
I love the thumbnail, really summarizes the whole show
Tony Stark
Tony Stark Maand geleden
"It's you, not the dog." FINALLY 😆
Deepak Menon
Deepak Menon Maand geleden
Did you know that Victoria is 51 years old?
SDIGF3 Maand geleden
She's not 51 in this video.
Deepak Menon
Deepak Menon Maand geleden
Hah! She finally put It's you not the dog in one of her vids!!
Cassidy Yermal
Cassidy Yermal Maand geleden
I think that this is how my dog acts when we leave. He loves to come with us and follow us everywhere. And he throws a hissy fit. He’s not destructive or anything but he does not like it when we leave.
Lilly Yana
Lilly Yana Maand geleden
The doggo was like "Finally she learned. Thanks to this trainer!"
Cassie Ruiz
Cassie Ruiz Maand geleden
The maniacal cherries nutritionally hurry because fridge undeniably rule throughout a responsible tempo. super, cute way
Alina M
Alina M Maand geleden
I'm surprised she found so many pet friendly places (for 5 whole years) that allowed her to take the dog everywhere (especially since this was filmed 10 years ago, when public places weren't as pet friendly as they are today). From supermarkets, salons, doctor's office, planes, hotels, restaurants, workspaces, there are so many places where you can't bring a dog, I don't understand how she did it.
SDIGF3 Maand geleden
@Alina M It's possible, although ESAs don't have public access rights. She seemed desperate enough.
Alina M
Alina M Maand geleden
@SDIGF3 Pretending it's a service dog or an emotional support animal? Maybe.
SDIGF3 Maand geleden
I bet I have a good idea how she did it.
not a stan of dream
not a stan of dream Maand geleden
katphish30 Maand geleden
When anxious people adopt anxious dogs.
Hazxries Maand geleden
In a new sub
Annabelle Stone
Annabelle Stone Maand geleden
Stacys mom has got it going on, man!
Kid Kailey’s here Mamakwa
Kid Kailey’s here Mamakwa Maand geleden
Levi’s Arc
Levi’s Arc Maand geleden
“No, we don’t go, hello 👋 come here..” That took me out
Baram ansari
Baram ansari Maand geleden
Best trainer ever.
Baram ansari
Baram ansari Maand geleden
Love love love Victoria 😁😁😁
Undefined Error
Undefined Error Maand geleden
Look, I'm sorry, but it's always been "It's *you*, not the dog". I love this show but you know that is the actual title.
Wolvieys GG
Wolvieys GG Maand geleden
My dog has severe separation anxiety, and my dog does not do that lol. He has major panic attacks. I hate how people just say it instead of actually addressing it like it's fine if the dog has separation anxiety
Kate. Maand geleden
*Its me New title
Mara Maand geleden
My dog had severe separation anxiety. As a pittie she was REALLY good at damaging things lol. But she couldn't even handle being in a different room than me. So I started started saying "stay, be good, I love you." I started with 5 minutes and kept saying the same thing with longer time intervals, and it only took her a about a week before I didnt jhave to cage her while I was at work for a few hours and she just slept on my bed until I got home
Dalea Nolan
Dalea Nolan Maand geleden
Dog was like thank god!!! Peace and quiet!
tatleteen Maand geleden
This is the only episode of its me or the dog that i havent understood because the dog doesnt even have seperation anxiety. Just look at the reaction of her at the beginning
BillyTheMillipede Maand geleden
Wait this was so recent lol
brittany ouldcott
brittany ouldcott Maand geleden
Part of me kinda wonders, maybe she doesn't really want to be one a date alone? Owner has more separation anxiety, and she seems focused on dates ( not meeting friends, or shopping or other non-dog friendly activities) but dates. Hmmmm... maybe Pampi is a good excuse not to go home with scary dates, a tiny protector from potential dates. I wonder if 5 years ago she had a scary experience with a date?
Gamercruze Cod
Gamercruze Cod Maand geleden
Dog be like : thank you geesus this hooman finally left me alone *The lady comes back* Dog : ah hell na
Fruitpunchmouth Maand geleden
i mean when we left our dog alone in his first year he'd eat all our bread of the counter. but when we pushed the bread back and trained him, he sorta just stopped and then slept all day. or came to the door when we came home and kinda blocked us from entering the house until we told him to get back and then he'd back away. but he definitely stopped eating the bread. tbh i think he only chewed one shoe and after that lost interest in shoes and even then he bit it once and was like, nah this isn't for me.
A D Maand geleden
That dog doesnt even have separation anxiety. My dog has it and trust me you’ll know if it is real separation anxiety . I leave him in daycare when I go to work.
v j
v j Maand geleden
Ah Yes, finally it says "It's YOU not the Dog" in the thumbnail
Insert a cool username here
Insert a cool username here Maand geleden
Finally my wish has been granted. They made a episode titled "IT'S YOU NOT THE DOG" I'm in relief. 😅
Ramya Reddy
Ramya Reddy Maand geleden
Mam i have a german shepherd puppy 5month it always chase its tail Can you please give a advise
Morgan Elzey
Morgan Elzey Maand geleden
this dog is done lol she like whatever
MrMista08 Maand geleden
Feminists 🙄
simply one hell of a neko
simply one hell of a neko Maand geleden
My puppy is 12 weeks old and he has separation anxiety but only when I leave my room
Danielle Dewitt
Danielle Dewitt Maand geleden
@simply one hell of a neko Yes he’s, saved you a job there.
simply one hell of a neko
simply one hell of a neko Maand geleden
@Danielle Dewitt yeah he's basically telling me his type
Danielle Dewitt
Danielle Dewitt Maand geleden
@simply one hell of a neko There you go he’s already helped you out there.
simply one hell of a neko
simply one hell of a neko Maand geleden
@Danielle Dewitt I'll try to get some. Unlike the older female I have, he seems to do better with a puzzle toy. I have toys ranging from plush to rubber squeakies and he likes the rope and puzzles
Danielle Dewitt
Danielle Dewitt Maand geleden
@simply one hell of a neko There are other puzzle toys too.
FuzzyBlueBug Maand geleden
Most of these videos do be ‘It’s You Not the Dog’
Emily Monahan
Emily Monahan Maand geleden
Choky Nut
Choky Nut Maand geleden
Oh Victoria is so good at training dogs and humans too
Andrew Link
Andrew Link Maand geleden
0:40 *✨single womeeeeeennnn✨*
jacky vicious
jacky vicious Maand geleden
I love how that dog looked at her when she first said stay 😂 she was like nah I dont think so and went to lay down 😂
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